Ahh squirting. Isn't it just one of those wacky old myths like centaurs or unicorns? Well, no, actually. Female ejaculation is a legit real thing, and not as elusive and mysterious as people like to make out. Here's how to make a woman or person with a vagina squirt, or how to make yourself squirt if you are the vagina beholder. And just an N.
Squirting does not come out of the vagina
You just need a urethra. Your urethra is a tube that allows urine to pass out of the body. Ejaculation occurs when fluid — not necessarily urine — is expelled from your urethral opening during sexual arousal or orgasm. Surprisingly so! Although the exact numbers are difficult to nail down, small studies and surveys have helped researchers get a sense of just how diverse female ejaculation can be. About 33 people 14 percent said that they experienced ejaculation with all or most orgasms.
What IS female ejaculation?
When I finally let go and did what felt pleasurable is when it first happened. The intensity just kept increasing, and it kind of hit a plateau before I squirted. I tensed up which I would later find helps the process along quite a bit , then I found myself completely sated. There are of course general things that apply to everyone, like nerve endings and arousal -- but the 'how to' varies so much from person to person. In the interest of the greater good, Dr. Castellanos agreed to go deep on the subject. This is the big conundrum. Most people, when they talk about ejaculation, their frame of reference is men. If you take that same model and apply it to women, it doesn't translate. Squirting is a natural phenomenon and actually different than female ejaculation, but because it looks more like what we in our mind conceptualize as ejaculation because of what happens to a guy, most people think squirting is the same thing.
For millennia, humans have been fascinated by the mysteries of female ejaculation — where does that gushy stuff come from? What makes it burst forth? And what are its demands in our earthly realm?